having sex is not one of my top priorities. it's just not something i need in life right now. call me crazy, but i just don't care about it anymore. 

the reason is probably a myriad of things: tiredness, combination of medications, stress, etc. at the moment, i don't care to fix the problem. what's wrong with taking a break in your sexual life? i am a human being, not a wild animal with an instinct to reproduce and populate the planet. 

you might say, "your husband must be doing something wrong". no, my husband is fine, he's not a sex god, but he gets the job done. the loss of my sex drive doesn't exactly feel like a "loss" to me. it's just that my mental health is taking precedence right now. even if that means that i keep taking my medications that are likely to blame for this dry spell. 

priorities change as you get older, and i can either learn to embrace it, or sit in this slump forever.